TEACHING THE BOYS

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I would like to start by saying that I am not into forcing boys into dresses. I like the looks of boys the way they are, rugged, crazy creatures that will be tough as nails one minutes and sweet and sensitive the next. That being said, I also believe that the boy who feels more famine then masculine, should be allowed to wear what makes them happy, without fear.

This story is interracial and shows dominate black men and boys taking control of the whites around them. This story is made up, but does include some of the experiences I had in my childhood. When I was fourteen, I became involved with Black Men. They were strict and dominant, and although it was difficult sometimes, I loved it. This is the story of two white boys that come from a very feminine background, and when tragedy strikes, they find themselves in a place that will allow them to be themselves and learn to provide men with the pleasure they need.

CHAPTER 1

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  1. Nice., I had a foster boy that loved to dress up as a princess. He was so cute in his dress and pullups or diaper. He had a wetting issue and said he would rather wear a diaper or pullup than risk wetting his pants or dress. besides he was a soaker at night. I let him pick out what he was going to wear so that way he could express his feelings and pick a favorite brand or cartoon on them. He was 10, and petite, but a sweet boy. I let him be a happy boy and explore his femine/sissy side. After 18 months he stilled loved to be a princess at home and if we traveled he would sometimes run around the hotel as a princess. The other boys knew teasing was not allowed and thus they accepted him as he was. He ended up getting adopted and the father was okay with his princess side. I hope he is happy and I bet in the future he will be a great, loving and understanding father to his own little boy.

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    1. As I said in the story, I am not into feminizing boys. I like boys to be boys. That being said, a boy is a person with rights and should that person feel inside that he is more comfortable in girls clothes, who am I to say he is wrong. I was all boy growing up, but when I saw my first eunuch I dreamed of being one. Never happened, but if the opportunity had presented itself back then I would have done it.

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      1. I agree. Boys or anyone for that matter, should be able to be themselves, freely and accepted and loved for it. I try very hard not to judge anyone. When I did fostercare, I always told my boys that I accepted and loved them for whom they were. That included all the good things and even the bad things that happened. I told them they coudl just be themselves and I did not care if they were straight, gay, bi or unsure. I also told them that clothes do not make the man or boy, its what is inside that matters, and if they like blue, red, pink or purple, it does not change hwo I see them, and if someone does not like them because of their clothes or being emotional, than that person is not a true friend and not to worry about the loss.

        Nicky was a very special boy. I think when he was younger he was only told he was pretty and I believe the princess part came from his home life growing up with only his mom, her friend and several older girls. He loved fishing and roughhousing, and even working on my truck with me, even in the dirt or grease, but he had his princess and even at time sissy side that came out. He started to outgrow the sissy side when he was getting as much attention and positive reinforcement doing normal boy stuff instead of just as a princess. The best part was the other boys accepted him for whom he was. Some had questions and I just told them that everyone is different and special, and if we accept each other for whom they are, then they and us can all be happier and better friends. It sunk in and the boys were very kind and protective of Nicky, whenever he needed it. But he had no problem throwing down with a bigger kid if he had to, I had to take a day off because he got into a fight with a 5th grader that was picking on him, and he stood up to him. I was so proud, but explained that fighting is not the answer, and that I was disappointed he did not find another way or tell me about the bully.

        Boys need positive attention and love. To know that they are never too old for a hug or to snuggle or cuddle if that is what they feel they need and want. That they are loved unconditionally for whom they are, not for how they act or what they do or dont do. That when they mess up, what they did was wrong or bad, but they are not bad. All too often parents and others whom the boys look up to and listen to, use the wrong words around them which can make the boy feel that he is not worthy of their love or attention because they say things like, you did bad, or you were bad, instead of clearly sayin the behavior was bad, but he is still a good boy and loved.

        Thanks for the great stories. I look forward to reading them. I will check here often since I see nifty is not getting updated as much on FSB.

        I just joined wordpress and over the next month or 2 i’m going to try doing a story myself. You inspired me.

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